Question of the Week:
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
+
What do you wish there was more of in porn?
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
I’ve been really loving this app called Dipsea. It’s sexy audio with storylines, consent, and there’s a lot of different types of themes in the stories. I’ve been loving it. There’s a free trial and then you have pay for it.
📝 by Anonymous
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
Ok so first thing, if you’re gonna watch porn on websites like pornhub, etc you need a good internet browser extension to remove the ads that are all around the video. I like this one for chrome.
So fun. Ok I have a few videos that I find fascinating.
This is my favorite porn video of all time. As someone who’s very eco-sexual and mystical, this video hits on the imaginal, erotic quality of rain on the skin. It’s so good.
I love the consent talk they have at the beginning of this video. It’s not clunky, but enthusiastic and real.
Beautiful erotic art (less pornography):
Otherwise I love Dipsea (high quality audio porn - makes my imagination run wild) and xconfessions (high quality porn directed by women & nonbinary folks). r/chickflixxx has mixed results but sometimes I come across some real gems on there.
What do you wish there was more of in porn?
Consent, feedback, communication. Like I just want to see someone say “slower” “stop, let’s change positions” “ok stay there” etc. And for that to not be cut out. I also love it when in BDSM scenes they’ll interview the actors and hear what they’re a yes and a no to.
I just want to see people who don’t seem dissociated or inauthentic have sex with each other. I want to see love, genuine affection, play, creativity.
📝 by Savannah Kruger
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
I’ve had my fair share of Pornhub adventures over the years and I’m currently on the search on where to find more ethically produced porn, so I thought I’d take a moment to reflect back to when I first came out as queer and what I had searched for back then.
When I was a baby lesbian (shoutout to my 19-year-old self, circa 2011), this Director’s Cut of Mila Kunis and Zoe Saldana lit a fire inside of me.
It starts at 3:30 (the scene in the library).
First of all, public space - a LIBRARY. Hot. Third, I thought Mila and Zoe were super fine together. Mila’s character was both mean, fun, selfish and closed off which I was able to relate to my lover being like at the time. I found myself being in the position of Zoe’s character. The idea of having someone to eat out on a regular basis put me in a euphoric state. It was a way to process my situation and a way to get off at the same time.
Now with that being said, where can I find the GOOD porn?
What do you wish there was more of in porn?
Consent talks, actually I’d love to see more play talk in general. Authenticity and play feel in alignment too
📝 by Ocean
What do you wish there was more of in porn?
I wish there was more “slower” and “softer” being requested by the women in porn. A lot less “harder/faster”. And I wish I saw more women saying “I’m not ready yet” before intercourse, especially if it’s been less than a half an hour of foreplay!
📝 by Katie Mae
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
I wouldn't call this porn, necessarily but it's definitely erotic content on Instagram.
I love it because it's:
1) Self-produced
2) features a woman who is confident and empowered in her sexuality
3) has beautiful lighting
4) is a teaser for learning experiences that lead to better touch and sex.
What do you wish there was more of in porn?
I'd love to see more kinky porn that includes the stars talking about why they're into that kink!
📝 by JuicyFruits
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
I feel like there’s a bit of everything already out there. Maybe for me, I wish I knew more of how to search for what I like? Or to have the main page default show more what I could like.
📝 by Anonymous
What do you wish there was more of in porn?
On complex bdsm videos I think it would be really interesting and useful for the dom to walk through the thinking and logic of each step as they are doing it. perhaps with more detailed explanations of what techniques on using certain tools and toys; how to use them with maximum effectiveness, why they are choosing a certain tool over another, how they are thinking about the psychological elements of how they tie or restrain someone. Also it'd be interesting to hear their live thinking on what they are watching out for in the sub in terms of safety (safe words/signals/movements), what they are picking up on in the sub's behavior that they can play with in terms of pleasure, expectation, and other emotions / states of mind.
basically getting an inside peek at what is going through the dom's brain in a more unfiltered way for the viewer than the typical "I'm going to do x and y to you" directed at the sub, but instead a more detailed narration meant for the viewer in a slightly more educational context on how to do what they're doing.
I'd also like to see more porn where sub/dom roles switch several times throughout. I feel like I see this sometimes in lesbian porn but less so in hereto porn, but it'd be interesting to see that dynamic play out.
📝 by Anonymous
Share your favorite intentional porn resources.
Okay! So my fave porn websites are:
Free Stuff:
Kate Marley (on YouPorn)
Sexy Hippies (Pornhub)
Films I've made / been part of:
Luminous Lust (featured in HUMP! 2018)
My favorite films of all time (paid):
📝 by Val Elefante
Last Week's Question:
What is it you really want when you want to have sex with another person?
